KAY FRANCES WAKLEY^[1]

1939 - 1994  (54 years)  Submit Photo / Document

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• Name	KAY FRANCES WAKLEY
  Born	3 Aug 1939	CHANDLER, LINCOLN, OKLAHOMA   [2]
  	BIRTH CERTIFICATE FROM THE STATE OF OKLAHOMA
  Gender	Female
  Baptism	10 May 1949	CHANDLER, LINCOLN, OKLAHOMA   [3]
  	Baptism	10 May 1949	CHANDLER, LINCOLN, OKLAHOMA   [3]
  FIRST BAPTIST CHURCH OF CHANDLER, OKLAHOMA DURING VACATION BIBLE SCHOOL.
  Died	15 Mar 1994	WALDORF, CHARLES, MARYLAND   [4]
  	DIED OF METASTATIC COLON CANCER IN HER HOME AT ABT 3:15 A.M. SHE WAS UNDER THE CARE OF HER FAMILY AND THE CHARLES COUNTY HOSPICE ORGANIZATION. HER MOTHER AND ALL HER FAMILY WERE PRESENT EXCEPT FOR LIANNA LARABEE AND HER SISTER, CLYDENA GILLIAN.
  Age	54 years
  Buried	21 Mar 1994	CHANDLER, LINCOLN, OKLAHOMA   [5]
  	OAK PARK CEMETERY, BLOCK 19 LOT 153 NORTH 1/2 SPACE 4.
  		Kay F. Wakley Caudle's grave at Oak Park Cemetery in Chandler, OK. Downloaded from findagrave.com - Find A Grave Memorial# 21602110 submitted by OkieBran
  Person ID	I2	Caudle Descendants
  Last Modified	5 Apr 2012

  
  

  Father	CLYDE FREDERICK WAKLEY,   b. 15 Sep 1909, CHANDLER, LINCOLN, OKLAHOMA ,   d. 9 Jun 1970, EDMOND, OKLAHOMA, OKLAHOMA   Age: 60 years
  Mother	BERTHA MAE BUTLER,   b. 7 Aug 1919, CHANDLER, LINCOLN, OKLAHOMA ,   d. 7 Mar 2012, CHANDLER, LINCOLN, OKLAHOMA   Age: 92 years
  Married	15 Sep 1937	STILLWATER, PAYNE, OKLAHOMA
  Photos	Family photos for CLYDE FREDERICK WAKLEY & BERTHA MAE BUTLER
  Photos » Slide Show		Bertha Clyde and Clydena 1956.jpg
  		Bertha Clyde and Clydena 1957.jpg
  		Bertha Clydena and Clyde 1949.jpg
  		Clyde Bertha and Clydena 1952.jpg
  		Bertha and Clyde 1967.jpg Bertha and Clyde Wakley at Clydena and Russell Gillian's Wedding in 1967.
  		Bertha and Clyde 1961.jpg
  		Bertha. Clyde and Kay Wakley 1944.png
  Family ID	F37	Group Sheet

  
  

  Family	PRESTON MILFORD CAUDLE, SR. 2x ,   b. 18 Mar 1938, SUPERIOR, PINAL COUNTY, ARIZONA ,   d. 26 Jul 2009, TULSA, TULSA, OKLAHOMA   Age: 71 years
  Married	26 May 1957	WARWICK, LINCOLN, OKLAHOMA   [6]
  	Married	26 May 1957	WARWICK, LINCOLN, OKLAHOMA   [6]
  		MARRIED BY MAX HIVELY AT 2 O'CLOCK SUNDAY AFTER- NOON. SUE WAKLEY WAS KAY'S BRIDESMAID AND CLIF- FORD MOSER WAS MY BEST MAN. THE RECEPTION WAS HELD IN KAY'S PARENTS HOME. MARRIAGE LICENSE STATE OF OKLAHOMA, LINCOLN COUNTY, IN COUNTY COURT, (COPY), TO ANY PERSON AUTHORIZED TO PERFORM THE MARRIAGE CEREMONY, GREETING: YOU ARE HEREBY AUTHORIZED, UPON DELIVERY OF THIS MARRIAGE LICENSE WITHIN TEN DAYS FROM DATE OF ITS ISSUE TO YOU, TO JOIN IN MARRIAGE MR. PRESTON MILFORD CAUDLE OF CHANDLER, COUNTY OF LINCOLN, STATE OF OKLAHOMA, AGE 19 YEARS, AND MISS KAY FRANCES WAKLEY, OF CHANDLER, COUNTY OF LINCOLN, STATE OF OKLAHOMA, AGE 17 YEARS; AND BY THE COMMAND OF THE STATUTE YOU SHALL MAKE DUE RETURN OF THIS LICENSE TO MY OFFICE WITHIN FIVE DAYS SUCCEEDING THE PERFORMANCE OF THE MARRIAGE HERIN AUTHORIZED. ISSUED UNDER MY HAND AND OFFICIAL SEAL, AND RECORDED IN MY MARRIAGE RECORD BEFORE DELIVERY, AT CHANDLER, OKLAHOMA, THIS 25TH DAY OF MAY, 1957, EARL BREWER, COURT CLERK, (SEAL), REQUIREMENTS OF HOUSE BILL 7, TWENTIETH OKLAHOMA LEGISLATURE, FULLY MET BEFORE ISSUE, AND FACT ENDORSED. PERSON OFFICIATING WILL NOTE. (REVERSE) ====================================================================== == CERTIFICATE OF MARRIAGE [SAME FORM AS MARRIAGE LICENSE] STATE OF OKLAHOMA, LINCOLN COUNTY, SS: J. MAX HIVELY, MISSION PASTOR, FIRST BAPTIST CHURCH OF CHANDLER, IN LINCOLN COUNTY, STATE OF OKLAHOMA, DO HEREBY CERTIFY THAT I JOINED IN MARRIAGE THE PERSONS NAMED IN AND AUTHORIZED BY THIS LICENSE TO BE MARRIED, ON THE 26TH DAY OF MAY, A.D. 1957, AT WARWICK BAPTIST MISSION, IN LINCOLN COUNTY, STATE OF OKLAHOMA, IN THE PRESENCE OF CLIFFORD R. MOSER OF OKLA. CITY, OKLA. AND SUE WAKLEY OF CHANDLER, OKLA. MY CREDENTIALS OF AUTHORITY ARE RECORDED IN MINISTERS’ CREDENTIALS: BOOK 1 AT PAGE 251 OF LINCOLN COUNTY, OKLAHOMA. J. MAX HIVELY (PERSON PERFORMING CEREMONY), MISSION PASTOR (OFFICIAL DESIGNATION). ====================================================================== == LICENSE RETURNED AND CERTIFICATE OF MARRIAGE RECORDED SUBJOINING THE RECORD OF LICENSE ISSUED AND RECORDED IN MARRIAGE RECORD, BOOK 35 AT PAGE 260, ON THIS THE 27TH DAY OF MAY, 1957. EARL BREWER, COURT CLERK. AFTER RECORDING THIS CERTIFICATE OF MARRIAGE SUBJOINING THE RECORD OF THE LICENSE, IT SHALL BE RETURNED, UPON REQUEST THEREFOR TO THE PERSONS TO WHOM THE SAME WAS ISSUED. (HOUSE BILL 294, TWENTIETH OKLAHOMA LEGISLATION). ENDORSEMENT (REVERSE OF MARRIAGE LICENSE) BY THIS ENDORSEMENT TO THE WITHIN AND FOREGOING MARRIAGE LICENSE, I HEREBY VERIFY, AND TRULY CERTIFY, THAT THE APPLICATION FOR SAID LICENSE WAS ACCOMPANIED BY PROPER CREDENTIALS UNDER THE CIRCUMSTANCE INDICATED BY THE WORD "FILED" OPPOSITE ONE OF THE THREE PERMISSIBLE ALTERNATES INDICATED BELOW: (OR TWO IF IT BE SO). FILED (1) PAPERS COMPLYING WITH SECTIONS 1 AND 3 OF HOUSE BILL NO. 7 OF THE TWENTIETH OKLAHOMA LEGISLATURE RELATIVE TO THE EXAMINATION AND HEALTH OF THE PARTIES; OR (2) AN ORDER OF THE COUNTY JUDGE, WITH ACCOMPANYING MEMORANDA OF REASONS FOR THE ORDER, DISPENSING WITH THOSE REQUIREMENTS OF SECTIONS 1 AND 3 OF SAID HOUSE BILL NO. 7, RELATIVE TO THE EXAMINATION AND HEALTH OF EITHER OR BOTH OF THE PARTIES; OR (3) AN ORDER OF THE COUNTY JUDGE, WITH ACCOMPANYING MEMORANDA OF REASONS FOR THE ORDER, EXTENDING THE 30-DAY PERIOD FOLLOWING THE EXAMINATION TO 90 DAYS OR LESS, TOGETHER WITH PAPERS COMPLYING WITH SECTIONS 1 AND 3 OF HOUSE BILL NO. 7 IN ALL OTHER RESPECTS. WITNESS MY HAND AND OFFICIAL SEAL THIS 25TH DAY OF MAY, 1957 SEAL EARL BREWER, COURT CLERK STAMPED I, EARL BREWER, COURT CLERK OF LINCOLN COUNTY, OKLAHOMA, HEREBY CERTIFY THAT THE FOREGOING IS A TRUE, CORRECT AND COMPLTE COPY OF THE INSTRUMENT HEREWITH SET OUT AS APPEARS OF RECORD AND ON FILE IN MY OFFICE OF LINCOLN COUNTY, OKLA., THIS 27TH DAY OF MAY, 1957. EARL BREWER, COURT CLERK, BY EARL BREWER, SIGNED. NOTE: CLIFFORD R. MOSER IS A FIRST COUSIN TO PRESTON MILFORD CAUDLE AND SUE WAKLEY IS A FIRST COUSIN TO KAY FRANCES WAKLEY. THEY ALSO SERVED AS BEST MAN AND BRIDESMAID AT THE WEDDING CEREMONY. J. MAX HIVELY WAS PRESTON MILFORD CAUDLE’S PARENTS’ PASTOR. (PRESTON’S PARENTS TRANSFERRED THEIR MEMBERSHIP FROM THE FIRST BAPTIST CHURCH AT CHANDLER TO THE BAPTIST MISSION CHURCH AT WARWICK BECAUSE WARWICK WAS CLOSER TO WHERE THEY LIVED.) THIS IS THE REASON THAT KAY CHOSE TO HAVE THE WEDDING THERE.
  		Mom and Dad Cake Cutting.jpg
  Notes	KAY AND I SPENT OUR FIRST NIGHT TOGETHER AT ADA, OKLAHOMA. EARLIER THAT DAY, CLIFFORD MOSER AND I WASHED AND WAXED THE CAR. IT DIDN'T DO NO GOOD THOUGH BECAUSE CLIFFORD, ANNA RITA AND THE REST OF THE KIDS AT THE RECEPTION PAINTED "JUST MARRIED" ALL OVER THE CAR. (THE SUN BAKED IT INTO THE PAINT AND WE NEVER DID GET IT OFF THE CAR). CLIFFORD CROSSED THE SPARK PLUG WIRES AND I MADE HIM CHANGE THEM BACK SINCE HE WAS THE ONLY MECHANIC THERE. WE ATE AT A RESTAURANT AND THEN WENT TO A CARNIVAL OUTSIDE OF ADA. I TRIED TO WIN KAY A TEDDY BEAR BUT NEVER GOT THE JOB DONE. AFTER ABOUT 2 HOURS OF IT, WE WENT TO THE MOTEL WE HAD RENTED EARLIER THAT DAY. WE ATTEMPTED TO DRINK THE WINE I HAD BROUGHT HOME FROM MY BACHELOR PARTY FOR OUR WEDDING NIGHT. BUT WE FOUND THAT MOM HAD TAMPERED WITH IT. SHE HAD POURED HALF OF IT OUT AND ADDED WATER. IT TASTED WEAK SO WE EMPTIED IT OUT IN THE BATHROOM SINK. MY WIFE AND I VISITED ADA IN 1983 AND LOOKED FOR THE MOTEL WE STAYED IN. WE FOUND IT BUT IT WAS BEING DEMOLISHED. THE CABIN WE STAYED IN HAD ALREADY BEEN TORN DOWN. THE FOLLOWING TUESDAY NIGHT WE CAUGHT THE BUS TO RETURN TO WHIDBEY ISLAND, OAK HARBOR, WASHINGTON, MY NAVAL DUTY STATION AT THAT TIME. AFTER THREE NIGHTS ON THE BUS, WE SPENT FRIDAY NIGHT IN A HOTEL AT MT. VERNON, WASHINGTON. THERE, WE CONSUMATED OUR MARRIAGE.
  Children	1. MELITA KAY ("LI") CAUDLE 2x ,   b. 24 Sep 1959, CHANDLER, LINCOLN, OKLAHOMA ,   d. 21 Oct 2011, Jacksonville, Onslow, North Carolina   Age: 52 years 2. PRESTON MILFORD ("J.R.") CAUDLE, JR. 3. FREDRICK GLEN ("WOODY") CAUDLE
  Photos	Family photos for KAY FRANCES WAKLEY & PRESTON MILFORD CAUDLE, SR.
  Photos » Slide Show		Mom Dad and Melita.jpg
  		Mom Dad Navy.jpg
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  		Milford Caudle Family 1986.jpg
  Documents	Family photos for KAY FRANCES WAKLEY & PRESTON MILFORD CAUDLE, SR.
  Documents		How I Met Your Mother.pdf Dad wrote this in the same "1 Subject Notebook" that Mom wrote her reflections in, starting on the very next page, dated 3-7-1995.
  Headstones	Family photos for KAY FRANCES WAKLEY & PRESTON MILFORD CAUDLE, SR.
  Headstones » Slide Show		Caudle Headstone.jpg
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  Family ID	F1	Group Sheet

  
  

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  		Born - 3 Aug 1939 - CHANDLER, LINCOLN, OKLAHOMA Baptism - 10 May 1949 - CHANDLER, LINCOLN, OKLAHOMA Married - 26 May 1957 - WARWICK, LINCOLN, OKLAHOMA Child - MELITA KAY ("LI") CAUDLE - 24 Sep 1959 - CHANDLER, LINCOLN, OKLAHOMA Died - 15 Mar 1994 - WALDORF, CHARLES, MARYLAND Buried - 21 Mar 1994 - CHANDLER, LINCOLN, OKLAHOMA  = Link to Google Maps   = Link to Google Earth
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• Photos	Photos for KAY FRANCES WAKLEY
  Photos » Slide Show		Mom.jpg
  		Mom Freshman.jpg
  		Mom Junior.jpg
  		Dad, Grandma Minnie, Tina and JR, Grandma Bertha and Mom 1988.jpg (At least one living or private individual is linked to this item - Details withheld.)
  		Mamaw and Papaw with Lianna and Richard 1986.jpg (At least one living or private individual is linked to this item - Details withheld.)
  		Nicole helping Mamaw 1992.jpg (At least one living or private individual is linked to this item - Details withheld.)
  		Tina and JR with Mom and Dad 1988.jpg (At least one living or private individual is linked to this item - Details withheld.)
  		Hamilton and Minnie Butler with Kay and Clydena Wakley in 1946 Found this picture in Mom's Baby Book. (At least one living or private individual is linked to this item - Details withheld.)
  		Kay F Caudle 1945.jpg Found this in Mom's Baby Book. The inscription written below the picture says she is six years old.

  
  

  Documents	Photos for KAY FRANCES WAKLEY
  Documents		Kay Frances Wakley - Reflections.pdf Mom hand wrote this in a "1 Subject Notebook" from March to June of 1993.
  		Kay F Caudle High School Diploma.jpg Kay F Caudle High School Diploma

  
  

• Notes

  NAMED AFTER HER GREAT-GRANDMA BUTLER (JOHN BUTLER'S) WIFE, ANNIE FRANCES BROWN. REFERENCES: CAUDLE(4), PRESTON MILFORD SENIOR, UNPUBLISHED GENEALOGICAL RESEARCH ON JOHN JEFFERSON CAUDLE'S DESCENDANTS, SIBLINGS, SPOUSES, AND ANCESTORS, FALL 1967 TO PRESENT, RURAL ROUTE 2, BOX 840, OKMULGEE, OKLAHOMA 74447-9678. KAY LIVED WITH HER HUSBAND IN THE ST. CHARLES DEVELOPMENT IN WAKEFIELD NEIGHBORHOOD AT 2326 KENT COURT, WALDORF, CHARLES COUNTY, MARYLAND. KAY WAS 5 FEET 6 INCHES TALL, HAZEL (GRAY-GREEN) EYES, DARK BROWN HAIR THAT NEVER TURNED GRAY. HER SKIN WAS FAIR. SHE WEIGHED ABOUT 119 POUNDS WHEN WE MET, GROWING TO ABOUT 159 AFTER WE MARRIED, LOSING WEIGHT TO ABOUT 80 TO 90 POUNDS BEFORE SHE DIED. KAY WAS A BEAUTIFUL GIRL AND WOMAN. AS HER HUSBAND, I KNEW HER BOTH WAYS. SHE WAS 14 WHEN WE STARTED DATING AND 17 WHEN WE GOT MARRIED. WE WERE MARRIED ALMOST 37 YEARS. FIRST OF ALL, SHE WAS MY FRIEND; SHE WAS MY LOVER; SHE WAS MY WIFE; SHE WAS MY LIFE. SHE SAW ME THROUGH SOME VERY HARD TIMES. WE PARTNERED-UP AT A CLASS PARTY HELD NEAR HER HOME IN THE PASTURE IN THE SPRING OF 1954. I NOTICED SHE WAS ALONE WITHOUT A PARTNER AND SO WAS I. I ASKED HER TO BE MY PARTNER; SHE AGREED; FROM THEN ON WE REMAINED PARTNERS TILL THE DAY SHE DIED. WE FELL IN LOVE THAT SUMMER OF 1954. SHE SAW ME THROUGH MY REBELLIOUS YEARS AS A TEENAGER, MY NAVY YEARS, MY READJUSTMENT YEARS TO CIVILIAN LIFE AFTER SERVING FOUR YEARS IN THE NAVY, MY COLLEGE YEARS, MY POST COLLEGE YEARS, AND MY CAREER AS AN AUDITOR IN THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT. SHE MOVED WITH ME TO NEW PLACES WHEREEVER MY JOB TOOK ME AND NEVER COMPLAINED ALTHOUGH WE LIVED IN PLACES SHE NEVER LIKED. SHE WAS A FAITHFUL, AND LOYAL WIFE. SHE WAS COMMITTED TO ME AND I TO HER. AS HER HUSBAND THERE NEVER WAS A TIME WHEN I WAS ASHAMED OF HER OR WHEN I MET OTHER WOMEN WHO I THOUGHT WERE MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN KAY. I CONTINUED TO THINK SHE WAS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN THAT I HAD EVER MET RIGHT UP TO THE MOMENT SHE DIED. I ALWAYS KNEW I HAD THE BEST WIFE AND NEVER WANTED ANYONE ELSE. HOWEVER, SHE REMAINED A MYSTERY TO ME TO THE DAY SHE DIED. WE LOVED.... KAY WAS A GOOD, LOVING, SWEET, KIND, COMPASSIONATE, AND GENTLE PERSON. SHE ALWAYS WANTED TO DO WHAT WAS RIGHT AND WHAT WAS EXPECTED OF HER. WHEN SHE DIDN'T LIVE UP TO THOSE STANDARDS, SHE WAS UPSET. SHE WAS A GOOD DAUGHTER, WIFE, AND MOTHER. SHE WAS MY HELP MEET; SHE COMPLEMENTED MY WEAKNESSES IN EVERY WAY. IN THE BEGINNING OF OUR COURTSHIP SHE WAS MORE MATURE THAN I BUT THAT CHANGED AFTER I WENT INTO THE NAVY. HOWEVER, SHE CAUGHT UP WITH ME AGAIN BEFORE SHE DIED AND MAY HAVE SURPASSED ME. IN MY OPINION SHE REACHED HER FULL POTENTIAL BEFORE HER DEATH. SHE WAS A BETTER DRIVER THAN I. SHE KNEW IT TOO. SHE NEVER HAD AN ACCIDENT. ONCE IN AWHILE SHE LET ME KNOW IT; ESPECIALLY, IF I WAS INVOLVED IN AN ACCIDENT, OR THE RECEIPIENT OF A TICKET THAT WAS LONGER THAN A WITCHES DREAM. HOWEVER, SHE WANTED ME TO DRIVE DURING INCLEMENT WEATHER. IT DIDN'T MATTER IF IT WAS WATER, ICE, OR SNOW. SHE WANTED ME BEHIND THAT WHEEL. I THINK THAT WAS BECAUSE INCLEMENT WEATHER MADE HER NERVOUS. SHE TRUSTED ME.... SHE WAS A BETTER PARENT THAN I BECAUSE SHE WAS NOT AS HARSH IN HER DISCIPLINE AS I WAS. MOST OF THE TIME I THOUGHT THAT SHE BALANCED MY HARSHNESS WITH HER GENTLENESS. AS I SAID BEFORE SHE WAS MY COMPLEMENT. SHE WAS AN EXCELLENT TEACHER. THAT'S BECAUSE SHE LOVED CHILDREN. SHE TRULY DID, THAT'S NOT JUST WORDS. SHE BECAME A DAY SCHOOL TEACHER, AT LADS AND LASSIES, AFTER WE MOVED TO MARYLAND BECAUSE SHE THOUGHT THAT WORKING AND SINGLE PARENTS WEREN'T GIVING THEIR CHILDREN ENOUGH LOVE OR TIME. SHE LOVED THE CHILDREN THAT SHE TAUGHT; THEY BECAME HER CHILDREN. SHE WANTED THEM TO KNOW ABOUT JESUS: THAT JESUS LOVED THEM, THAT HE WOULD ALWAYS LOVE THEM, THAT HE WOULD NEVER FORSAKE THEM, THAT THEY COULD ALWAYS TRUST HIM, THAT HE WOULD NEVER LET THEM DOWN, THAT HE DIED FOR THEM. THE DAY CARE CHILDREN AND KAY'S GRANDCHILDREN KNEW SHE LOVED THEM AND THEY RESPONDED POSITIVELY TO HER LOVE. KAY WAS A BORN AGAIN CHRISTIAN. SHE ASKED JESUS INTO HER HEART WHEN SHE WAS NINE OR TEN YEARS OLD AT THE FIRST BAPTIST CHURCH IN CHANDLER, OKLAHOMA. SHE TRUSTED IN AND DEPENDED ON HIM; JESUS WAS HER SAVIOR. SHE LATER EXPERIENCED WHAT WE KNOW TODAY AS ANXIETY ATTACKS. THE DOCTORS CALLED IT POST PARTEM DEPRESSION BECAUSE THEY BECAME AWARE OF IT AFTER HER THIRD CHILD WAS BORN. KAY AND I BELIEVED WHAT THE DOCTORS SAID UNTIL SHE FOUND OUT THAT HER SISTER HAD ANXIETY ATTACKS. THAT'S WHEN SHE PUT IT ALL TOGETHER. I AGREE THAT IT WAS ANXIETY ATTACKS BECAUSE SHE HAD THEM BEFORE WE WERE MARRIED. BLESS HER HEART, SHE HAD A ROUGH TIME WITH IT BUT SHE WORKED IT OUT THROUGH JESUS, NOT DOCTORS, OR PRESCRIBED DRUGS. SHE DID NOT GIVE-UP, WRING HER HANDS AND QUIT. SHE HUNG IN THERE. THROUGH PRAYER AND DAILY BIBLE STUDY SHE LET JESUS WORK A MIRACLE IN HER LIFE. ULTIMATELY, WHEN SHE MADE JESUS LORD OF HER LIFE, NOT JUST HER SAVIOR, SHE EXPERIENCED THE PEACE IN HER LIFE THAT JESUS LEFT US WHEN HE ASCENDED INTO HEAVEN. KAY WAS NOT PERFECT; SHE HAD NEGATIVES IN HER LIFE. SHE DID NOT LIKE INTIMIDATION. SHE FOUGHT BACK EVEN IF IT HAPPENED TO BE ME. SHE DID NOT LIKE FOR ME TO TEACH HER. NO MATTER WHAT THE SUBJECT WAS SHE DID NOT WANT TO HEAR IT. HOWEVER, SHE WAS MALEABLE; SHE WAS WILLING TO LET THE HOLY SPIRIT REMAKE HER INTO WHAT SHE LATER BECAME: AN ALMOST COMPLETE PERSON. OVER THE YEARS WE AS HUSBAND AND WIFE SOMETIMES LOST THE ABILITY TO COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHER ORALLY. WHEN THIS HAPPENED, WE COULD ALWAYS COMMUNICATE IN WRITING. KAY WOULD WRITE ME NOTES. I WROTE HER LETTERS. THE RESULT: WE WORKED THROUGH OUR PROBLEMS. SAVING OUR MARRIAGE WAS NEVER A QUESTION BECAUSE WE WERE COMMITTED TO EACH OTHER AND WE WERE NOT GOING TO SEPARATE. ANNA PARKER WAS KAY'S BEST GIRL FRIEND IN HER FRESHMAN YEAR AT CHANDLER HIGH SCHOOL. SHE'S THE ONE THAT WAS WITH KAY THE NIGHT THEY WALKED PAST ROBERT BROWN, A SENIOR, AND MYSELF, A FRESHMAN, LIKE KAY, PARKED IN FRONT OF THE COURT HOUSE ON NORTH MANVEL AVENUE. ( I HAD RECENTLY MOVED TO CHANDLER WITH MY FAMILY IN OCTOBER 1953; SO, I WAS A NEW KID IN SCHOOL AT THE TIME. WHEN ROBERT BROWN ASKED ME TO ATTEND A SCHOOL PROGRAM WITH HIM, I GLADLY AGREED. HE WAS A NEIGHBOR THAT LIVED NEAR US ABOUT 5 MILES WEST OF CHANDLER OFF OF FEDERAL HIGHWAY 66. WE RODE THE SAME SCHOOL BUS. AFTER THE PROGRAM, ROBERT AND I DROVE DOWN MANVEL AVENUE AND PARKED IN FRONT OF THE COURT HOUSE ACROSS FROM THE H&S THEATRE.) I SAW KAY AND ANNA WALKING PAST US ON THE SIDEWALK. (ANNA ALSO RODE MY SCHOOL BUS AND LIVED OFF OF FEDERAL HIGHWAY 66, JUST ABOUT 2 MILES AS A CROW FLYS.) I DON'T KNOW WHY I SAID IT BUT I LOOKED AT ROBERT AND SAID LOUDLY, AS KAY AND ANNA WALKED PAST IN FRONT OF THE CAR, "THERE GOES THE GIRL I'M GOING TO MARRY." AFTER THEY HEARD IT, KAY AND ANNA HURRIEDLY WALKED ON UP THE SIDEWALK, CROSSED OVER MANVEL AVENUE AND WALKED BACK DOWN THE SIDEWALK TO THE H&S THEATRE WHERE KAY PICKED-UP THE TELEPHONE OUTSIDE THE CONCESSION BOOTH. SHE MUST HAVE CALLED HER DAD BECAUSE HE CAME AND PICKED HER UP SHORTLY AFTER SHE CALLED. SHE WAS WEARING MENS' LEVIS THAT NIGHT, STANDING TO THE SIDE OF THE CONCESSION BOOTH UNDER THE LIGHTS OF THE H&S THEATRE. "I THOUGHT SHE WAS THE PRETTIEST GIRL I HAD EVER SEEN." I SAW IT ALL THAT NIGHT, STANDING THERE ACROSS THE STREET BESIDE ROBERT'S CAR IN FRONT OF THE COURT HOUSE AND THE H&S THEATRE. ANNA, BY THE WAY, WAS WEARING WOMENS' JEANS. AFTER WE MARRIED THREE YEARS LATER, I ASKED KAY IF SHE REMEMBERED WHAT I SAID. SHE DID. I ASKED HER WHAT SHE THOUGHT ABOUT IT. SHE SAID IT EMBARRASSED HER AT THE TIME, BUT SHE LIKED IT. FOR THE FIRST GRADE, KAY ATTENDED RURAL, BANNER SCHOOL LOCATED ABOUT 3 MILES NORTH AND 1/2 MILE WEST OF CHANDLER, OKLAHOMA OFF OF STATE HIGHWAY 18. IT WAS A ONE-ROOM FRAME BUILDING. GRADES FIRST THROUGH EIGHTH WERE TAUGHT THERE. MRS. RUBY KEY TAUGHT HER. FOR THE SECOND AND PART OF THE THIRD GRADES, KAY ATTENDED PLEASANT RIDGE SCHOOL, LOCATED 4 MILES WEST AND 1 MILE NORTH OF CHANDLER. FLORENCE FALKENSTEIN EVANS AND MISS UCAL FORD TAUGHT HER. KAY TELLS ABOUT HER MODE OF TRANSPORTATION TO THIS SCHOOL IN HER DIARY SHE KEPT JUST BEFORE SHE DIED. FOR THE LAST PART OF THE THIRD AND ALL OF THE FOURTH GRADES, KAY ATTENDED HUNTER GRADE SCHOOL, LOCATED IN THE CITY OF CHANDLER ON THE EASTSIDE OF TOWN: MRS TIDWELL TAUGHT HER THE LAST PART OF THE THIRD GRADE. BERTHA, KAY'S MOTHER, AND DENA, KAY'S SISTER, COULD NOT REMEMBER THE TEACHER'S NAME (HER NAME MAY HAVE BEEN ESTILENE) THAT TAUGHT KAY IN THE FOURTH GRADE. FOR THE FIFTH THROUGH THE EIGHTH GRADES, KAY ATTENDED EASTSIDE SCHOOL IN THE CITY OF CHANDLER, LOCATED, OF COURSE, ON THE EASTSIDE OF TOWN: MS EDITH JENNINGS, HUTTON, AND TIDWELL, MESSRS. BRYAN SWIGGART, AND JOHN NEER TAUGHT KAY FIFTH, SIXTH, SEVENTH, AND EIGHTH GRADE SUBJECTS. KAY ATTENDED ALL FOUR YEARS OF HIGH SCHOOL AT CHANDLER HIGH (KNOWN AS THE LIONS, BLUE AND RED WERE THEIR COLORS) IN CHANDLER, LOCATED ON THE WEST SIDE OF TOWN. MESSRS. DAVE PHILLIPS AND SHELBY S. WYATT WERE THE SUPERINTENDENT AND PRINCIPLE THERE. MESSRS. SHELBY S. WYATT TAUGHT HER CIVICS (GOVERNMENT), AND GLEN REEDER TAUGHT HER OKLAHOMA HISTORY; MRS. AURILLA REEDER, GLEN'S WIFE, TAUGHT HER TYPING II, BOOKKEEPING AND STUDY HALL; MS WENONAH WILLIAMS AND IRENE BANES TAUGHT HER ENGLISH, THELMA CLAYTON TYPING I, HELEN HURST GENERAL SCIENCE, RACHEL LOU MOORE HOME ECONOMICS, MABEL GILLIAN ALGEBRA; AND JUNE PORTER SPEECH, DEBATE, AND AMERICAN HISTORY. STANDARD CERTIFICATE OF BIRTH ----------------------------- DEPARTMENT OF COMMERCE BUREAU OF THE CENSUS STATE FILM NO. 27 REGISTERED NO. 2243 1. PLACE OF BIRTH (a) COUNTY LINCOLN (b) STATE OKLAHOMA (c) TOWNSHIP UNION 2. NAME OF CHILD KAY FRANCIS WAKLEY [AMENDED SEP 25, 1964] SEX F 4. AND 5. BLANK 7. LEGITIMATE YES 8. DATE OF BIRTH AUG. 3, 1939 9. FATHER CLYDE WAKLEY 240 [ANNOTATED] 10. RESIDENCE CHANDLER, OKLA. 11. COLOR WHITE 12. AGE AT LAST BIRTHDAY 29 YEARS 13. BIRTH PLACE OKLAHOMA 14. TRADE, PROFESSION, OR PARTICULAR KIND OF WORK DONE FARMER 15. INDUSTRY OR BUSINESS BLANK [AGRICULTURE] 16. DATE LAST ENGAGED IN THIS KIND OF WORK AUG. 1939 17. TOTAL YEARS SPENT IN THIS KIND OF WORK LIFE 18. MOTHER'S FULL MAIDEN NAME BERTHA BUTLER 19. RESIDENCE CHANDLER, OKLA. 20. COLOR WHITE 21. AGE AT LAST BIRTHDAY 19 YEARS 22. BIRTHPLACE OKLAHOMA 23. TRADE, PROFESSION, OR PARTICULAR KIND OF WORK DONE HOUSEWIFE 24. INDUSTRY OR BUSINESS IN WHICH WORK WAS DONE BLANK [HOME] 25. DATE LAST ENGAGED IN THIS WORK AUG. 1939 26. TOTAL TIME SPENT IN THIS WORK BLANK [ACTUALLY 2 YEARS] 27. TOTAL NUMBER OF CHILDREN BORN TO THIS MOTHER INCLUDING THIS BIRTH ONE 28. (a) BORN ALIVE AND NOW LIVING ONE (b) BORN ALIVE BUT NOW DEAD NONE (c) STILLBORN NONE (d) BLANK 29. CAUSE OF STILLBIRTH BLANK ====================================================================== ==== CERTIFICATE OF ATTENDING PHYSICIAN OR MIDWIFE I HEREBY CERTIFY THAT I ATTENDED THE BIRTH OF THIS CHILD, WHO WAS BORN ALIVE AT 10:30 P.M. ON THE DATE ABOVE STATED. (SIGNED) J. W. ADAMS, M.D. ADDRESS CHANDLER, OKLAHOMA FILED 8/26/1939 SIGNATURE PURCEE M. LAUGHLIN, REGISTRAR. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- ---- CERTIFIED COPY THE GREAT SEAL OF THE STATE OF OKLAHOMA STATE DEPARTMENT OF HEALTH STATE OF OKLAHOMA 3400 NORTH EASTERN OKLAHOMA CITY 5 OKLAHOMA I HEREBY CERTIFY THE FOREGOING TO BE A TRUE AND CORRECT COPY, ORIGINAL OF WHICH IS ON FILE IN THIS OFFICE. IN TESTIMONY WHEREOF, I HAVE HEREUNTO SUBSCRIBED MY NAME AND CAUSED THE OFFICIAL SEAL TO BE AFFIXED, AT OKLAHOMA CITY, OKLAHOMA, THIS 28 DAY OF SEPTEMBER 1964. [SIGNATURE] C. C. CASE, STATE REGISTRAR STATE OF OKLAHOMA - DEPARTMENT OF HEALTH AMENDMENT TO BIRTH CERTIFICATE ------------------------------ 51411 [ANNOTATED] CERTIFICATE OF BIRTH OF KAY FRANCES WAKLEY DATE OF BIRTH AUG. 3, 1939 PLACE OF BIRTH LINCOLN COUNTY, OKLAHOMA STATE FILE NO. 2481 - 27 ITEMS TO BE AMENDED ---------------------------------------------------------------------- ---- ITEM NAME OF CHILD ENTRY BEFORE AMENDMENT KAY FRANCIS WAKLEY ENTRY AFTER AMENDMENT KAY FRANCES WAKLEY ---------------------------------------------------------------------- ---- ABSTRACT OF SUPPORTING DOCUMENTARY EVIDENCE DOCUMENTS PRESENTED BY WHOM ISSUED 1. AFFIDAVIT BY WHOM SIGNED PAULINE DELPHON DATE ISSUED 9-21-64 DATE SIGNED 9-21-64 INFORMATION CONCERNING REGISTRANT IN DOCUMENT 1. KAY FRANCES WAKLEY AMENDMENT REQUEST BY KAY FRANCES CAUDLE RELATED TO REGISTRANT REGISTRANT ====================================================================== ==== CERTIFICATION BY STATE REGISTRAR: I HEREBY CERTIFY THAT I HAVE EXAMINED THE DOCUMENTS REFERRED TO ABOVE, THAT THE ABSTRACT IS TRUE AND CORRECT, THAT THE DOCUMENTS SHOW NO CHANGES OR ERASURES, AND APPEAR TO BE AUTHENTIC. STATE REGISTRAR C. C. CASE [SIGNATURE] FILE DATE SEPTEMBER 25, 1964 ====================================================================== ==== DRIVERS LICENSE --------------- MARYLAND MVA [MOTOR VEHICLE ADMINISTRATION KAY FRANCES [WAKLEY] CAUDLE, 2326 KENT CT [COURT], WALDORF, CH [CHARLES] MD [MARYLAND] 20602 PICTURE TAKEN 07/08/1992 WITH A16 ON SIDE OF IT EXPIRES 08/03/[19]97 IDENTIFICATION NO. C-340-461=261-608 CLASS ENDORSEMENTS C [ALL NONCOMMERCIAL VEHICLES UNDER 26,001 POUNDS GVW (GROSS VEHICLE WEIGHT) EXCEPT MOTORCYCLES] CONTROL NO. 5835206 DATE OF ISSUE 07/08/[19]92 HEIGHT 5-03 WEIGHT 128 SEX F DATE OF BIRTH 08/03/[19]39 LIC TYPE DONOR R SIGNATURE KAY F. CAUDLE. CERTIFICATION FOR SCHOOL EMPLOYEES ---------------------------------- CHARLES COUNTY HEALTH DEPARTMENT BOX 640, LA PLATA, MARYLAND 20646 THIS IS TO CERTIFY THAT KAY F. CAUDLE IS FREE OF TUBERCULOSIS IN A COMMUNICABLE STAGE. THIS CERTIFICATION IS VALID FOR AN INDEFINITE PERIOD PROVIDING YOU DO NOT DEVELOP TUBERCULOSIS AT A LATER TIME. ISSUED 9-28-83 SIGNED BY M. NATAROJAN, RN. HOSPITALIZATION INSURANCE CARD ------------------------------ BLUE CROSS BLUE SHIELD FEDERAL EMPLOYEE PROGRAM PPO GOVERNMENT-WIDE SERVICE BENEFIT PLAN SUBSCRIBER NAME PRESTON M. CAUDLE IDENTIFICATION NUMBER ROOE10865 ENROLLMENT CODE 105 [FAMILY] EFFECTIVE DATE OF COVERAGE 07/10/60 PCS RETAIL PHARMACY CARRIER # 6500 RETAIL PHARMACY GROUP # 6500 SOCIAL SECURITY CARD -------------------- SOCIAL SECURITY ACCOUNT NUMBER 448-36-4355 HAS BEEN ESTABLISHED FOR KAY FRANCES CAUDLE SIGNATURE KAY FRANCES CAUDLE FOR SOCIAL SECURITY PURPOSES NOT FOR IDENTIFICATION. IMPLANTED PORT-A-CATH SYSTEM ---------------------------- REORDER: 21-4003 LOT NO. 18849A LOCATION OF PORTAL CL CHEST LOCATION OF CATHETER SVC PATIENT NAME CAUDLE, KAY F. AMERICAN RED CROSS CARD ----------------------- THIS CERTIES THAT KAY CAUDLE HAS COMPLETED THE ADULT CPR COURSE OF INSTRUCTION AT LADS & LASSIES DATE COURSE COMPLETED 1-12-91 CHAPTER REPRESENTATIVE R. COPPOLA INSTRUCTOR CHERIE BRACKETT ANOTHER ONE SHOWING DATE COMPLETED ADULT CPR COURSE OF INSTRUCTION AS 2/29/92 SIGNED BY CHAIRMAN, AMERICAN RED CROSS, GEORGE F. MOODY, RA AND INSTRUCTOR CHERIE W. BRACKETT. NOTE: KAY WAS OPERATED ON IN MAY 1992 FOR COLON CANCER AND THAT IS WHEN THE SURGEON, DOCTOR FINDER AT SOUTHERN MARYLAND HOSPITAL IN CLINTON FOUND THAT THE CANCER HAD CROSSED OVER FROM THE COLON TO THE GALL BLADDER AND LIVER. THE SURGEON REMOVED THE GALL BLADDER BUT COULD NOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT THE LIVER BECAUSE IT HAD MANY LESIONS. VOTER REGISTRATION CARD ----------------------- CHARLES COUNTY BOARD OF SUPERVISORS OF ELECTIONS PARTY AFFILIATION REPUBLICAN DATE OF REGISTRATION 05/26/80 DISTRICT 06 PRECINCT 08 LEGISLATIVE DIST. 28 LEGISLATIVE SUBDIST. A CONGRESSIONAL DIST. 01 POLLING PLACE BJN [BENJAMIN] STODDERT MID SCH [SCHOOL] CAUDLE, KAY F., 2326 KENT CT., WALDORF, MD. 20601 SIGNATURE KAY F. CAUDLE NOT FOR PROOF OF AGE.

  
  

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